So it's been a really cool day and a half for me here in Valencia. Weekends are going to be really awesome, I think.
So, yesterday we went to the aquarium, which was INCREDIBLE. It's the biggest aquarium in Europe and I loved it.
We all met at noon to get our sandwiches and walk to the aquarium, which was probably a 45 minute walk. This would not have been a problem had it not started to rain halfway there. I mean, I had a good time. The walk was through the rio and therefore really nice, plus, I like rain, but some people were less happy, and NOBODY'S hair looked good at the end of it! But we got to the aquarium, and it turned out to be a wonderful day.
See?
Here we are, looking' super fly in front of the aquarium. Still a bit cloudy.
The aquarium was really beautiful.
Unlike the Georgia aquarium, a lot of the exhibits are outside,
which is especially cool since the aquarium is part of the "city of arts and sciences", this complex that the city of Valencia built. It's got an opera house and an interactive science museum and an imax theatre, and it looks something like this:
So then we all sort of split up and everybody goes everywhere. I somehow stumble into the tropical fish exhibit by myself. About halfway through, I run into Alexz, our beautiful TA.
Looks something like this when it's been raining. Likes purple.
So she and I decide to go around the aquarium together, because she too is alone. How she wound up in the tropical fish exhibit by herself I REALLY don't know. But it worked.
So we saw the tropical fish.
Took a picture by an anglerfish made of trash
And generally had a lovely time. We saw a lot of stuff. Cool fish. Marine mammals. Usual aquarium stuff.
We spent some time with other people, but we kind of took our own rout around the aquarium.
We went to this really cool aviary they have at the museum
It's in that big white circle thing. Note that there are now no more clouds.
And you can go inside
Which we did
And we saw the birds. Which I thought was super cool.
We then went to see the sea lions.
This guy was out sunning himself. It was really funny.
We then ate a snack by the sea lion exhibit and met up with Elena and went to the arctic exhibit. There were penguins and walruses and beluga whales oh my.
After a while in that exhibit, we went to see...
DOLPHINS! There was a dolphin show and it was awesome.
The arena was outside, and a bit chilly. It looked something like this
It was a super cool show. We had a really awesome time. The whole group was together for this one, because nobody wanted to miss the dolphins.
Side note. We had to wait a little while for the dolphin show to start so....
I got some reading in.
The dolphin show was really cool. It was all in Spanish and I understood quite a bit of it. I always go to the dolphin shows and come out wanting to be a dolphin trainer. They just look like they're having such a good time. Trainers and dolphins both.
After the show a lot of people left the aquarium. They'd seen all they wanted to, and there was a big department store nearby that they wanted to go to. Unfortunately, Alexz and I hadn't quite made it to see the sharks yet, and there was no way that I was going to miss that, so I wound up with all the teachers in the shark exhibit.
Good times.
Actually, it was a lot of fun. We just sort of chilled and took our time. We took silly pictures
And tried to get lined up with the sharks
Success!
We took pictures of odd fish.
I swear this is something out of Doctor Who.
And after the sharks we passed this really cool exhibit where they had made art out of trash and we took silly pictures with that
All of us
It was hilarious.
Then we had a leisurely walk back
It was a lot of fun. We chatted and laughed and managed to not get lost. It was a great time.
So then I came back, sore, tired, but really happy, and just chilled for a few hours. I then went to dinner and sat with some Spanish girls. They were all either med or pharmacy students, which seems to be the norm here. We had a great conversation about college costs and cultural differences. It was a lot of fun. They nearly had a heart attack when I told them how much a school like Harvard would cost in a year. Apparently 1000 or 2000 euros a year is pretty normal for college here. Doesn't that sound nice!?! Also, they seemed surprised that our best schools, the Harvards, Yales, and MITs were private. In Spain, apparently, you only go to a private university if you didn't get the scores to one of the superior public ones.
Also, I know you all know that the Spaniards eat dinner much later than we do, and this conversation was happening at like 9:30 at night, but their reactions when I told them that I often eat lunch at 11:30 and dinner at 5:30 might have been the highlight of my evening. They actually had to check and make sure we were talking about the same meal!
I'm actually surprisingly used to this schedule now. I haven't eaten dinner before 8 since I got here, and I'm just fine with that. Waiting until 9-9:30 isn't bad at all.
Afterwards, around 11:30 I went out to the plaza de la virgen (the one with the cathedral) with 3 other of the people from my group. It was really nice. We had a drink and a tapa (can you have just one?). It was nice. Much more my speed of going out. They had wine, I had water, and the focus was on the conversation.
We honestly didn't stay out very long. We were all pretty tired, and by 1am I was back in my room. I took a shower and went to bed by 2.
This morning I woke up and met a bunch of others in the lobby to go to an American diner for brunch at 11:30. We were all craving just a taste of something from home. We walked to the diner, but we had neglected to check the time, so it wouldn't open for another hour. Strangely, but fortunately, we seemed to be in the American section of town and found a Starbucks across the street where we had a snack and a drink while we waited. It was cool and pretty chill. I read some, chatted some, and then the diner opened.
It was this horribly tacky, wonderful 1950's diner, in the most stereotypical way possible. The waitresses wore pink dresses and they had neon lights all around, and sea foam green booths and the floor was black and white checkers. There was a jukebox when you came in, but they were playing classic music from the 50's from the speakers in the restaurant whether or not you selected a song. I mean, it was a parody of Americana the way that some Mexican restaurants are a parody of Mexican culture. Seeing it from the other side was kind of strange.
So we all got seated in the big round booth in the back and ordered our food. Most of us got hamburgers, and I have to say, they were pretty quality. I mean, not the best burger ever, but definitely not McDonald's. It was fun. The table was too crowded, and there were elbows and confused drinks and trouble communicating with the waitress, but it was nice. We decided that this was a thing we should do every Sunday: go try somewhere new. We eat in the dining hall normally, but it was cool to try a restaurant in Valencia. Next Sunday is Mexican.
The restaurant was pretty empty when we got there, since it was only 1, but it was almost 3 by the time we left, so it was full of Valencianos there to enjoy some American Food. The waitress gave us 1 check for 9 people who were all paying separately, so we had a great time (ha. haha.) doing the math to figure out who got what and how much they should put towards the pot. Sometimes I really like the French idea "on partage" which roughly translates to "screw this, we'll just split it evenly and assume that if we go out together often enough this will all even out". But I am actually kind of glad that we had to do the math, because while we were counting euro coins, the best part of the morning happened.
We are just sitting there, when the song "Greased Lightning" comes on. I, of course, start to dance and sing along, as I do whenever I hear that song, but when I look up, there are people who work for the restaurant in leather jackets (guys) and pink '50's tops and hair (girls) dancing to the song with this fun little choreographed routine. It was really dorky, of course, and they were bopping around while people laughed and filmed, and (in the case of the girl next to me and I) danced and sang along. They even got a little girl to come up and dance with them during the instrumental break. It was precious. Of course, less than half of the restaurant had any clue what the song they were dancing to actually meant, but it was fun and cheesy and gimmicky, but I loved it.
We then walked back, just Alexz and I, because everyone else had to go to the pharmacy, and I came back to the dorm and tried to nap, but wound up writing blogs and choosing photos and starting my homework.
At 6 we then went out for horchata, which I'm not actually sure what it is. It's this sweet, white drink that is served chilled and tastes kind of like almond milk (or so I'm told). It's made from some sort of plant that I don't think has a name in English. It is apparently a very traditional Valencian drink, and once you get past the strangeness of it, it's pretty tasty, if really sweet.
Then we came back, and HOMEWORK! Which I'm still sort of doing. It's a partner project and I have finished my part and am waiting for her to finish hers. This blog has been a very piecemeal sort of thing.
But anyway, back to the whole point of the title.
So a couple days ago, Dad and I were talking about the concept of adulthood. The closer I get to being an adult (I'm sort of convinced that I have an asymptotic relationship to adulthood (parenthesis within parenthesis, it's parentheception!!! sorry. Somebody get Nicole! I'm going to use math to explain something!). Like, the more I grow up, the closer to adulthood I get, but I never quite feel like I'm there, I just keep getting infinitely closer. I look more like an adult and act more like an and at some point, I get so close to zero (adulthood) that I might as well be there, but I still just haven't totally gotten there yet.) Anyway, the closer I get to being an adult, the more I have these sort of introspective conversations about what being an adult means and how one goes about doing it. And this conversation was interesting because the way I feel about being an adult is different over here. I am the youngest one on the trip, but a lot of the times I feel like a middle-aged lady. Everyone else likes to go out and party and drink and talk about boys and I like to... sit at home and read and drink tea and think about what literature means. And that's weird sometimes. I don't mind too much, especially not when everyone else went out the night before we had to do something in the morning and I am well-rested and mildly caffeinated, when they are sleep-deprived and hungover, but it can be a little difficult, and I sometimes feel like I'm missing out.
But one of the points Dad and I talked about, was that adulthood is all about balance. Sometimes you need to know when to stay in for the night, but at the same time you enjoy adulthood a lot more if you know when to stop being adult-y. That being an adult shouldn't have to mean giving up joy and wonder and laughter and all those great nouns that we often modify with "childlike". And I've been thinking about that a lot recently, because I have done a lot of really fun stuff in the past few days, from Gulliver, to the aquarium, to jamming out to Greased Lightning this morning, and I wouldn't have enjoyed any of it if I was too worried about whether it was appropriately adultlike for my age.
I mean, look at these faces,
do we look like we are trying in any way to be dignified?
No. Because we weren't. Which is good. Because we totally failed if that was the goal. But the goal was to have fun, and THAT we managed.
I guess what I'm saying is that these past few days have reminded me of this John Green quote that I really love, and totally overused on my college applications, it's about how the fun of life comes when you let yourself be "unironically enthusiastic" about things you love, and I think that's sort of the secret to enjoying life, but especially study abroad. You just have to give yourself permission to be unironic, and yes, sometimes even childlike, in your enthusiasm
Even if you look like an idiot.